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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p style="font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;">Governments all over the world are having to cope with the economic downturn but in the UK the Government have an extra problem to deal with: corruption amongst its members of Parliament; over the last few weeks many of them have been caught with their fingers in the till and are now having to pay back thousands of pounds to the exchequer. Some have already resigned, some have been told they cannot stand as MPs at the next election and many know that, even if they do stand they most certainly will not win their seats again.</p>
<p style="font:12px Helvetica;min-height:14px;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;">The Labour Government&#8217;s reputation was at a very low ebb before all this was revealed but now it&#8217;s hit the cellar floor. The recent local council elections for Labour was a disaster of huge proportions as were the results of the MEP voting; it was a wipe-out and they now don&#8217;t control a single council in England. It is patently obvious that at the next general election they will be thrown out.</p>
<p style="font:12px Helvetica;min-height:14px;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;">Consequently a lot of Labour MPs are rebelling and blaming it all on their leader, Gordon Brown. Because of resignations from his cabinet he has had to do a quick reshuffle and now the knives are out and, as one newspaper put it, so are the sharpened stilettos! (The women&#8217;s footwear sort frequently wielded by feminists.)</p>
<p style="font:12px Helvetica;min-height:14px;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;">Caroline Flint, Europe Minister, having declared her support for the Prime Minister on Thursday, stabbed him in the back on Friday by resigning because she didn&#8217;t get the job she&#8217;d hoped for. Diddums den! She accused Gordon Brown of using women in the Cabinet as &#8220;window dressing&#8221;. Coming shortly after she posed for a glamour photo shoot, that is hypocrisy of a very high order.</p>
<p style="font:12px Helvetica;min-height:14px;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;">The previous Prime Minister, Tony Blair, seeking female votes, was keen on getting more women into Parliament, even using methods declared illegal by the British High Court. At a subsequent general election he declared, hoping for the female vote again, that, if he was re-elected he would put more women in his Cabinet. When he said that he didn&#8217;t know what ability those women might have but he was going to put them in the cabinet just because they were women. This is often termed &#8220;sexism&#8221;.</p>
<p style="font:12px Helvetica;min-height:14px;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;">His underhand scheme worked and more women came into Parliament albeit by the back door. Blair promised that the &#8220;Blair Babes&#8221; would help to keep Parliament pure and honest and that the Labour Government would be whiter than white. Well, recent events have proved beyond doubt that female MPs can be just as dishonest as their male counterparts and, when it come to disloyalty they can easily beat their male counterparts. 20% of the UK&#8217;s MPs are women &#8211; a lot of them feminists &#8211; but, at the time of writing, 30% of resignations have been by women proving that they are much better than men at letting the side down.</p>
<p style="font:12px Helvetica;min-height:14px;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:12px Helvetica;margin:0;">I was recently sent an excellent article on this matter written by George Rolph. He has given me permission to reprint his article here:</p>
<p style="font:12px Helvetica;min-height:14px;margin:0;"> </p>
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<p style="font:12px Helvetica;min-height:14px;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;"><span style="font:10px Helvetica;">&#8220;</span>I popped over to the Reuters web site to have a look at the news as reported by them and I found a little gem of typical feminist duplicity and guilt tripping. It was hard to keep myself from laughing as I read about Caroline Flint&#8217;s less than gracious departure from her job. Caroline is a feminist and therefore, unlikely to have anything more than a tenuous grip on reality. They are programmed to be daft. It runs in the ideology. The best way I have found to picture them as a group, whether male or female, is like spoilt kids screaming for more and crying like babies if they don&#8217;t get it&#8230;.NOW!!!!</p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;">Croline Flint quits with swipe at Brown/UK/Reuters (http://uk.reuters.com/article/domesticNews/idUKTRE5545TU20090605)</p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;">What they want NOW!!!! is often so far fetched it is ludicrous. Don&#8217;t be fooled by their &#8220;equality&#8221; speeches either. They have no intention of seeking equality. What they want is total power over you and me. They are like be-knickered dictators (even the males among them) that live in a state of almost constant P.M.T. (even the males among them). When feminists have a period it can last twenty years or more and during that, er, period (of time, I mean) they are virtually unfit to be with the rest of us (Even the males among them). </p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;">Feminists have a number of strengths. Chief among them is they know how to bully. They have the abusing of others down to a fine art and, even more skilfully, they can make their victims look like it is they who are in the wrong as they can switch from aggressive &#8220;assertiveness&#8221; to passive victim in the blink of an eye. </p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;min-height:15px;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;"> Another strength is the ability to lie  straight to your face, in a softly spoken &#8220;reasonable&#8221; tone of voice, as they pour out false domestic abuse statistics like those office coffee machines that pour out something that looks real but tastes fake. </p>
<p style="font:12px Times;color:#000cee;margin:0;"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><a href="http://www.archive.org/details/FalseDomesticViolenceFiguresExposed">http://www.archive.org/details/FalseDomesticViolenceFiguresExposed</a></span></p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;min-height:15px;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;">False accusations is another area where they excel. In court rooms, in Parliament and in the office these gals (and guys) can destroy an entire career with one carefully staged managed accusation. Then, when they have thus disposed of their rival, they can wield another guilt trip about the need for their boss to indulge in some &#8220;positive discrimination&#8221; to get their former work mate&#8217;s old job. </p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;min-height:15px;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;">I could go on listing these strengths all day but I will just add one more. Manipulation. Boy! They can certainly manipulate and the full gamut of their weapons are deployed when they do it. The lies, the bullying, the assertiveness, the victim-hood, the amateur dramatics, the false accusations, the poison-pen letter or email dropped in the right address. The whole arsenal can be unleashed in one manipulative encounter. The only way I have ever found to be effective in helping me withstand these attacks from feminists in full flow is to picture them naked, wearing only one grey sock, one orange Marigold rubber glove with a finger missing, a flower sticking out of their back orifice and a tattoo that says, &#8220;This is what a feminist looks like&#8221; emblazoned on their stomachs.</p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;">This is doubly effective when the feminist is male, by the way.</p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;">Their biggest weaknesses are their inability to stop boasting about how they are going to destroy men and always, with a gleeful look on their faces. (I know! But what can you do with the deluded except pat them on the head and say, &#8220;Yes dear&#8221;?) Another, is also one of their strengths. It is, of course, their lying. Feminists will lie through their back teeth and then express total bewilderment when you catch them out. This is because they have no idea what a lie is. They are self programmed to think everything they say is utter truth. In fact, the opposite is true, but their programming will not let them see it. Thus, if a feminist tells you it is a red hot day outside, order a snow plough from E-bay.</p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;">Another massive weakness of feminists is their disloyalty. Even towards each other. You probably think that feminists are all extremely loyal to each other because they seem to speak with one voice. Yes, but so do politicians. Even when they are busy stabbing each other in the back. Feminists are the same. In fact, since their morphing into their present radical form in the 1960s they have split into more factions than a British Army grenade at a live firing exercise.</p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;">Now we have had a tour of their attributes as human beings, let&#8217;s take a short look at this delicious story on the Reuters web site.</p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;">Time to rearrange some paragraphs in order to get maximum humour from this tale of high drama in low office.</p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;color:#ff0000;margin:0;">LONDON (Reuters) &#8211; Europe Minister Caroline Flint accused Prime Minister, Gordon Brown, of using women as &#8220;female window-dressing&#8221; in his government when she quit her post Friday.</p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;color:#ff0000;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:12px Times;margin:0 0 12px;"><strong>*[Only a complete fool would use a feminist as "window dressing" and Gordon Brown is.....Oh no. Forget it. ED]*</strong></p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;color:#ff6265;margin:0 0 11px;">Her office released a copy of a strongly worded resignation letter to Brown in which she accused him of allowing few women colleagues into his inner circle.</p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;color:#ff6265;margin:0 0 11px;">&#8220;Several of the women attending Cabinet, myself included, have been treated by you as little more than female window-dressing,&#8221; she wrote. &#8220;I am not willing to attend Cabinet in a peripheral capacity any longer.&#8221;</p>
<p style="font:12px Times;margin:0 0 12px;"><strong>*[Spotted the manipulative guilt trip yet? ED]*</strong></p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;color:#ff6265;margin:0 0 11px;">&#8220;I am extremely disappointed at your failure to have an inclusive government. You have a two-tier government: your inner circle and then the remainder of Cabinet.&#8221;</p>
<p style="font:12px Times;margin:0 0 12px;"><strong>*[If you find all this intimidating, remember the flower and the grey sock etc. ED]*</strong></p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;color:#ff6265;margin:0;">Flint first entered parliament in 1997 as one of the original &#8220;Blair Babes,&#8221; the nickname given to the 101 female Labour MPs elected when Tony Blair came to power.</p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;color:#ff6265;margin:0;"> </p>
<p style="font:12px Times;margin:0 0 12px;"><strong>*[Blair was not noted for his good judgement was he? Iraq war. Marrying Cherie. Being mates with the corrupt, thieving, liar, Harriet Harpic. Doing a deal with Gordon over the premiership. Defecting from the Tories, Oh no. Sorry. He didn't do that one. Being born and so on. ED]*</strong></p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;color:#ff6265;margin:0 0 11px;">Three other women ministers have resigned this week &#8212; home secretary Jacqui Smith, communities secretary Hazel Blears and children&#8217;s secretary Beverley Hughes.</p>
<p style="font:12px Times;margin:0 0 12px;"><strong>*[Yay!!!! All feminists.ED]*</strong></p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;color:#ff6265;margin:0 0 11px;">Newspapers have billed their resignations as the &#8220;Revenge of the Sisterhood.&#8221; Some commentators say the Mother of Parliaments is still a male-dominated environment where a macho culture flourishes, despite government attempts to make politics more family-friendly.</p>
<p style="font:12px Times;margin:0 0 12px;"><strong>*[For "Some commentators" read other feminists and Fleet Street and TV land girly boys. For "girly boys" read ex males who are now feminists. Also known as "grils" which means, confused girls. ED]*</strong></p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0 0 11px;">So there we have it. The attributes of a feminist pouring out of a story like effluent on a holiday makers beach. Here though is the missing paragraph. This is the best laugh of all.</p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;color:#ff6265;margin:0 0 11px;">Her departure came less than a day after she declared her loyalty to Brown following speculation that she would resign.</p>
<p style="font:13px Arial;margin:0 0 11px;">He He. See what I mean?&#8221;</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some people say that women never invent anything. I disagree! Feminists and their supporters have invented some of the biggest hoaxes of the twentieth century. The &#8220;rule of thumb&#8221; hoax was one of the most well known and, despite the fact that it was exploded by Christina Hoff Sommers in her book &#8220;Who Stole Feminism?&#8220;, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=amos2008.wordpress.com&blog=3895068&post=126&subd=amos2008&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Some people say that women never invent anything. I disagree! Feminists and their supporters have invented some of the biggest hoaxes of the twentieth century. The &#8220;rule of thumb&#8221; hoax was one of the most well known and, despite the fact that it was exploded by Christina Hoff Sommers in her book &#8220;<em>Who Stole Feminism?</em>&#8220;, some untinking people, even today, still quote it as though it were a fact. Sadly some academics and publications like <em>Time </em>magazine, all of whom should know better, do the same.</p>
<p>Here is the truth of the matter as given by Christina Hoff Sommers in her book:</p>
<p>&#8220;&#8230;The &#8216;rule of thumb&#8217; story is an example of revisionist history that feminists happily fell into believing. It reinforces their perspective on society, and they tell it as a way of winning converts to their angry creed&#8230;</p>
<p>The &#8216;rule of thumb&#8217;, however, turns out to be an excellent example of what may be called a feminist fiction. It is not to be found in William Blackstone&#8217;s treatise on English common law. On the contrary, British law since the 1700s and our American laws predating the Revolution prohibit wife beating, though there have been periods and places in which the prohibition was only indifferently enforced.</p>
<p>That the phrase did not even originate in legal practice could have been ascertained by any fact-checker who took the trouble to look it up in the Oxford English Dictionary, which notes that the term has been used metaphorically for at least three hundred years to refer to any method of measurement or technique of estimation derived from experience rather than science.</p>
<p>According to Canadian folklorist Philip Hiscock, &#8220;The real explanation of &#8216;rule of thumb&#8217; is that it derives from wood workers&#8230; who knew their trade so well they rarely or never fell back on the use of such things as rulers. Instead, they would measure things by, for example, the length of their thumbs.&#8221; Hiscock adds that the phrase came into metaphorical use by the late seventeenth century. Hiscock could not track the source of the idea that the term derives from a principle governing wife beating, but he believes it is an example of &#8216;modern folklore&#8217; and compares it to other &#8216;back-formed explanations.&#8217; such as the claim asparagus comes from &#8217;sparrow-grass&#8217; or that &#8216;ring around the rosy&#8217; is about the plague.</p>
<p>We shall see that Hiscock&#8217;s hunch was correct, but we must begin by exonerating William Blackstone (1723-1780), the Englishman who codified centuries of legal customs and practices into the elegant and clearly organized tome known as <em>Commentaries on the Laws of England</em>. The <em>Commentaries</em>, a classic of legal literature, became the basis for the development of American law. The so-called rule of thumb as a guideline for wife-beating does not occur in Blackstone&#8217;s compendium, although he does refer to an ancient law that permitted &#8220;domestic chastisement&#8221;&#8230;.</p>
<p>In America, there have been laws against wife beating since before the Revolution. By 1870, it was illegal in almost every state; but even before then, wife-beaters were arrested and punished for assault and battery. The historian and feminist Elizabeth Pleck observes in a scholarly article entitled &#8220;<em>Wife-Battering in Nineteenth-Century America</em>&#8220;:</p>
<p>It has often been claimed that wife-beating in nineteenth-century America was legal&#8230; Actually, though, several states passed statutes legally prohibiting wife-beating; and at least one statute even predates the American Revolution. The Massachusetts Bay Colony prohibited wife-beating as early as 1655. The edict states: &#8220;No man shall strike his wife nor any woman her husband on penalty of such fine not exceeding ten pounds for one offense, or such corporal punishment as the County shall determine.&#8221;</p>
<p>[Pleck] points out that punishments for wife-beaters could be severe: according to an 1882 Maryland statute, the culprit could receive forty lashes at the whipping post; in Delaware, the number was thirty. In New Mexico, fines ranging from $225 to $1000 were levied, or sentences of one to five years in prison imposed. For most of our history, in fact, wife-beating has been considered a sin comparable to thievery or adultery. Religious groups &#8211; especially Protestant groups such as Quakers, Methodists, and Baptists &#8211; punished, shunned, and excommunicated wife-beaters. Husbands, brothers, and neighbors often took vengence against the batterer. Vigilante parties sometimes abducted wife-beaters and whipped them.</p>
<p>Just how did the false account originate, and how did it achieve authority and currency? As with many myths, there is a small core of fact surrounded by an accretion of error. In the course of rendering rulings on cases before them, two Southern judges had alluded to an &#8216;ancient law&#8217; according to which a man could beat his wife as long as the implement was not wider than his thumb. The judges, one from North Carolina and one from Mississippi, did not accept the authority of the &#8216;ancient law.&#8217; The North Carolina judge refered to it as &#8216;barbarism,&#8217; and both judges found the husband in the case in question guilty of wife abuse. Nevertheless, their rulings seemed to tolerate the notion that men had a measure of latitude in physically chastising their wives. Fortunately, as Pleck takes pains to remind us, they were not representative of judicial opinion in the rest of the country.</p>
<p>In 1976, Del Martin, a coordinator of the N.O.W. Task Force on Battered Women, came across a reference to the two judges and their remarks. Neither judge had used the phrase &#8220;rule of thumb,&#8221; but a thumb had been mentioned, and Ms. Martin took note of it:</p>
<p>&#8220;Our law, based upon the old English common-law doctrines, explicitly permitted wife-beating for correctional purposes. However, certain restrictions did exist&#8230; For instance, the common-law doctrine had been modified to allow the husband &#8216;the right to whip his wife, provided that he used a switch no bigger than his thumb&#8217; &#8211; a rule of thumb, so to speak.&#8221;</p>
<p>Ms. Martin had not claimed that the term &#8216;rule of thumb&#8217; originated from common law. Before long, however, the &#8216;ancient law&#8217; alluded to by two obscure Southern judges was being treated as an unchallenged principle of both British and American law, and journalists and academics alike were bandying the notion about. Feminist Terry Davidson, in an article entitled &#8216;<em>Wife Beating: A Recurring Phenomenon Throughout History</em>,&#8217; claims that &#8220;one of the reasons nineteenth century British wives were dealt with so harshly by their husbands and by their legal system was the &#8216;rule of thumb&#8217; and castigates Blackstone himself. &#8220;Blackstone saw nothing unreasonable about the wife-beating law. In fact, he believed it to be quite moderate.&#8221;</p>
<p>These interpretive errors were given added authority by a group of scholars and lawyers who, in 1982, prepared a report on wife abuse for the United States Commission on Civil Rights, <em>Under the Rule of Thumb: Battered Women and the Administration of Justice &#8211; A Report of the United States Commission on Civil Rights</em>. On the second page, they note: &#8216;American law is built upon the British common law that condoned wife beating and even prescribed the weapon to be used. This &#8216;rule of thumb&#8217; stipulated that a man could only beat his wife with a &#8216;rod not thicker than his thumb.&#8217;&#8221; It went on to speak of Blackstone as the jurist who &#8220;greatly influenced the making of the law in the American colonies [and who] commented on the &#8216;rule of thumb,&#8217;&#8221; justifying the rule by noting that &#8220;the law thought it reasonable to intrust [the husband] with this power of&#8230; chastisement, in the same moderation that a man is allowed to correct his apprentices or children.&#8221;</p>
<p>The publication of the report established the feminist fable about the origins of the term in popular lore, and the misogyny of Blackstone and &#8216;our law&#8217; as &#8216;fact.&#8217; Misstatements about the &#8216;rule of thumb&#8217; still appear in the popular press.</p>
<p>That same 1993 <em>Time</em> magazine article that popularized the nonexistent March of Dimes study on domestic violence and birth defects and reported that &#8220;between 22% and 35% of all visits by females to emergency rooms are for injuries from domestic assaults&#8221; also cited new York University law professor Holly Maguigan: &#8220;We talk about the notion of the rule of thumb, forgetting that it had to do with the restriction on a man&#8217;s right to use a weapon against his wife: he couldn&#8217;t use a rod that was larger than his thumb.&#8221; Professor Maguigan&#8217;s law students would do well to check their Blackstone.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2009 00:34:11 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Several years ago I read an account by a woman who owned a large New York flower shop; she said that 25% of all the flowers she sold on St Valentine&#8217;s Day were paid for by women who sent the flowers to themselves. How sad! These women must feel so alone and unwanted by any man. Truly we live in unromantic times.</p>
<p>But romance was another casualty of the feminist attack on society and on marriage in particular. I recently saw the results of a poll on chivalry in the workplace which aimed at getting women&#8217;s views on the matter. So many said they&#8217;d love men to open doors for them, to pull out a chair for them in a restaurant, to offer their seat on a bus or to help them on with their coat. In mid-twentieth century such acts of courtesy were common but in the sixties feminism was let loose and &#8220;equality&#8221; was the watchword. I remember in an episode of one of the very early Australian &#8220;soaps&#8221;, a man opening a door for a young woman, only to be told, &#8220;I&#8217;m quite capable of opening a door for myself thank you!&#8221;  It was thus that the feminist media killed off chivalry.</p>
<p>Today, with marriageable women outnumbering marriageable men in the UK, the well-known jewelry chain, H.Samuel, have just launched a new type of engagement ring &#8211; <strong><em>FOR MEN!</em></strong> It&#8217;s called the Tioro ring &#8211; a titanium band embedded with a diamond which costs £80.</p>
<p>Samuel&#8217;s based this launch on the well known fact that today women have to make a lot of the running if they want to get a man; it&#8217;s women who have to shape up. Many are now so desperate in their chase for a mate that they are often the ones who &#8220;pop the question&#8221;, and if his &#8220;yes&#8221; is forthcoming, they buy him a ring. Of course it&#8217;s also a way of warning other women that their man is spoken for, though rings can easily be removed in some circumstances. Who knows? The way things are going, we might soon hear of some men making a collection of engagement rings like some women have in the past. Could diamonds end up being a <strong><em>BOY&#8217;s</em></strong> best friend?</p>
<p>I know of one man who will be getting his usual Valentine&#8217;s card today from the partner he&#8217;s been living with for over twenty years. Every card carries the request to him to marry her but they are still just living together. It&#8217;s possible that this year she might offer to buy him an engagement ring.</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jan 2009 20:37:33 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Three women lived in the same house. One was a judge, one was a lawyer and one was a feminist. One day they went shopping in an antique shop looking for a large mirror. Eventually they bought one and asked the shopkeeper whether it had any special qualities.</p>
<p>&#8220;Oh yes,&#8221; he replied. &#8220;If you stand in front of it and tell a lie you&#8217;ll disappear in a cloud of smoke.&#8221;</p>
<p>The trio took the mirror home and hung it on the wall. The lawyer stood in front of it and said, &#8220;I think I&#8217;m the fairest thinking person in the world.&#8221; Immediately she disappeared in a cloud of smoke.</p>
<p>The judge then stood in front of the mirror and said, &#8220;I think that all my judgments are perfectly fair to all parties in my court.&#8221; Then she disappeared in a cloud of smoke.</p>
<p>The feminist stood in front of the mirror and said, &#8220;I think . . .&#8221; And she disappeared in a cloud of smoke.</p>
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<p>Most women and practically all men now realise what an utter waste of money and time feminism has been. Thinking and feminism are not even on nodding terms! As things started to fall apart in the 1960s, feminism rode in on the wave of liberalism created at the time. Even feminists have now been forced to admit that feminism was one of those things that seemed a good idea at the time, but it has backfired to such an extent that it has caused grave damage to men, women and children. This quote from Phyllis Schlafly&#8217;s article <em>Academia&#8217;s war against marriage, </em>published in 1997, proves the point:</p>
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<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;The Independent Women&#8217;s Forum has just published an issue of its Women&#8217;s Quarterly that is guaranteed to enrage the feminists. Called &#8220;Let&#8217;s Face It, Girls: The Sexual Revolution Was a Mistake,&#8221; it levels a broadside attack on feminists for teaching young women that liberation and fulfillment come from romping around like men in casual sex while building their all-important careers.</em></p>
<p><em>They are angry because they discovered too late that the cost of uncommitted sexual relationships is that &#8220;the window for getting married and having children is way smaller than one can possibly foresee at age 25.&#8221;</em></p>
<p><em>So, we hear the anguish of babyless fortyish women frustrated by their inability to get pregnant, spending their money and tears on chemicals and on clinics dispensing procedures with high failure rates. They&#8217;ve even realized that a lot of female infertility comes from exposure to sexually transmitted diseases, and that&#8217;s a high price to pay for those dead-end serial relationships.</em></p>
<p><em>In this Women&#8217;s Quarterly, Carolyn Graglia exposes the consequences of the foolish feminist notion that men and women are equal in their sexual desires. This myth, which is contrary to all human experience, has deprived women of the societal support they need to refuse to engage in casual sex.</em></p>
<p><em>Far from being empowered in their relations with men, women have lost control over ordinary relationships. Adult, educated women are now demanding that the government (or plaintiff attorneys) protect them from &#8220;date rape&#8221; and &#8220;sexual harassment&#8221; in situations that, in the pre-feminist era, unsophisticated high school girls could handle with confidence, knowing that a No would be respected.&#8221;</em></p></blockquote>
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<p>We are now faced with the most severe recession for many decades and things will soon get much worse with mass unemployment in all countries, and, as ever, when any country is in a position of danger it&#8217;s always the men of that country who have to sort things out. It was ever thus; all the pictures of men in TV adverts as being incompetent and bungling idiots with terribly smart wives are forgotten. The fictitious &#8220;G.I. Janes&#8221; and &#8220;Superwoman&#8221; are put on hold while the solid ability of men is trusted to sort out the problems. </p>
<p>For years past, under the guise of getting equality for women, men of higher calibre have been by-passed in favour of the promotion of less able women. Consequently, we have had the building up of inefficiency in teaching, the police, banking and many businesses in order to give the appearance of political &#8220;correctness&#8221;. Equal outcome has been the order of the day. All that inability has now translated into disaster; we now need the efficiency of men to sort it out.</p>
<p>While businesses were flush with cash it&#8217;s been all very well to employ women of child-bearing age who at any time may say they want a year off on pay to have a baby while someone else is paid to do their jobs, but, with so many workers being laid off, that luxury can no longer be afforded; businesses can no longer carry such passengers who are unproductive.</p>
<p>It has been all very well in past years training female doctors who, when qualified, only work part time so that it takes two of them to cover one practice, but now we will have to rely on one man to do the job thus saving a lot of money on training which is not efficient.</p>
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<p>Feminism has been an increasingly dying concept ever since we entered the twenty-first century. The recession will, for certain, be the final nail in its coffin.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:22:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I chose the title for this post advisedly after &#8211; unfortunately &#8211; coming across one of those &#8220;dolly diatribe&#8221; blogs entitled &#8220;I blame the Patriarchy&#8221;. The banner was in an appropriate washed out green, but the title was discernible.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>I chose the title for this post advisedly after &#8211; unfortunately &#8211; coming across one of those &#8220;dolly diatribe&#8221; blogs entitled <em>&#8220;I blame the Patriarchy&#8221;.</em> The banner was in an appropriate washed out green, but the title was discernible.</p>
<p>Judging by the blog&#8217;s contents, the writer is obviously some feminatric who attended a mid twentieth century course on women&#8217;s studies and is still using the notes she made at the time.</p>
<p>Her &#8220;style&#8221; impinges on the English language from time to time but is mostly confined to diatribish with such offerings as &#8220;I wouldn&#8217;t give him the steam off my piss&#8221;. The blog is full of such academic and uplifting &#8220;thinking&#8221; and is about as high as it gets.</p>
<p>The sycophants who read her blog quite naturally agree with her every utterance, and everyone who falls into this predictable mould is allowed to have their say; but there is a warning that no dissent is allowed. This has always been a feature of feminism and one of its many failings. It has never countenanced a differing point of view.</p>
<p>You might remember that in January 2005 the President of Havard University, Lawrence H. Summers, caused something of an uproar at an &#8220;academic&#8221; conferance when he said that innate differences between men and women might be one reason why fewer women succeed in science and maths careers. In this connection he also happened to mention the dearth of female professors in science and engineering at elite American universities. These are two facts which have been amply illustrated by school and university staffing and results over past decades but, sadly, it does not accord with feminist &#8220;thinking&#8221; which declares that there is very little difference between men and women &#8211; this despite clear DNA evidence that the difference genetically between men and women is about 2%, the same sort of gap as between a woman and a female chimpanzee.</p>
<p>One female teacher, from an Institute of technology, felt compelled to walk out of Summers&#8217; talk saying that, if she hadn&#8217;t done so, &#8220;I would have either  blacked out or thrown up&#8221;. I would have thought that anyone so academically parochial and unstable that she is unable to appreciate a point of view which differs from her own would be eminently unsuitable to teach young people how to study and how to think; but such is the state of American education at the moment.</p>
<p>Feminists, such as the writer of the blog I refer to, totally justify the comments by Robert H. Bork in his outstanding book <em>&#8220;Slouching Towards Gomorrah&#8221;</em>:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;Radical feminism is the most destructive and fanatical movement to come down to us from the sixties . . . by now it certainly deserves its own place in the halls of intellectual barbarisms&#8221;.</em></p></blockquote>
<p>In true feminist style, the blog blames everything in the world, from big business to religion, for having taken part in &#8220;the oppression of women&#8221;. But fortunately there are some women who think clearly on these social issues. Midge Decter, for instance, in her article <em>&#8220;You&#8217;re on your own baby&#8221;</em> in <em>The Women&#8217;s Quarterly</em>, asks:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;Why there should have been an explosion of angry demand on the part of women who as a group were the freest, healthiest, wealthiest, longest-lived and most comfortably situated people the world has ever yet laid eyes on.&#8221;</em></p></blockquote>
<p>Decter anwers this question by stating that it is her freedom that frightens today&#8217;s woman:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;The appeal to her of the women&#8217;s movement is that in her fear and disorientation, the movement offers her the momentary escape contained in the idea that she is not free at all; that she is, on the contrary, the victim of an age-old conspiracy that everything troubling to her has been imposed on her by others.&#8221;</em></p></blockquote>
<p>Think of all the freedom and choice available to modern woman: whether to take up a career in any field she chooses, whether to get married; and if she marries whether to juggle both or to make the choice of becoming a career mother and wife, and so on. In short, today&#8217;s woman has to take responsibility for her own actions and decisions. How much easier it must be to retreat into victimhood and &#8220;blame the Patriarchy&#8221;. Hence white, heterosexual men have become the universal blamees.</p>
<p>The most constructive comment I&#8217;ve ever read about feminism was by a woman who said: &#8220;Let&#8217;s face it, girls, feminism was a mistake&#8221;.</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2008 00:19:50 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Imagine you are sitting in a Dallas Area Rapid Transport bus one day and you happen to notice the two posters shown above. One shows the fresh face of a young boy with the caption &#8220;One day my mother will kill me&#8221;; the other shows the innocent face of a young girl with the words &#8220;When I grow up I will abuse my children&#8221;. I expect you&#8217;d be rather shocked, and if you asked the driver of the bus why his company was spreading such misinformation about domestic violence, and he answered &#8220;Well, most child abuse is by Moms and most of their victims are boys&#8221;, you&#8217;d be staggered by this truth; but you&#8217;d still not think it was depicting the actions of <strong><em>most</em></strong> women.</p>
<p>I expect this was the reaction of the majority of people travelling on DART transport when they saw the actual posters which the buses carried, shown below.</p>
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<p>Husbands do occasionally kill their wives, just as wives also kill their husbands, but young girls who see these posters should not <strong><em>expect</em></strong> to be killed by their husbands as the posters suggest, and young boys should not think that they will be <strong><em>expected</em></strong> to kill their wives.</p>
<p>This whole idea is a travesty of the true situation and all concerned with this campaign have good reason to bow their heads in shame at such misuse of these photographs and the promulgation of such obviously misleading ideas about domestic violence.</p>
<p>Fortunately the situation was brought to the attention of Glenn Sacks who, through his large and popular website, and by other means, informed the world about this child-hating campaign by &#8220;The Family Place&#8221;. Paige Flink is the Executive Director of this organization and she was happy to pay $25,000 for what turned out in the end to be a massive international backlash against her organization and DART who allowed her to engage in this tacky campaign. Thousands of protests poured in from all over the world; DART didn&#8217;t have the staff to deal with them.</p>
<p>The biased Miss Flink said that &#8220;Ninety percent of the victims of the reported cases of domestic violence in Dallas are females&#8221;. I think the important word here is &#8220;<strong>reported</strong>&#8220;. Men who are victims of female domestic violence rarely report the matter either because they are ashamed to admit it or for some other reason. In the UK, even the misandric BBC admit that men are six times less likely to report DV against them as women are.</p>
<p>Glenn Sacks truthfully pointed out that up-to-date research clearly shows that men account for half of all domestic violence victims and about one third of all domestic violence injuries. In the UK the ManKind website, which specialises in accurate and up-to-date information on domestic abuse, publishes very similar figures.</p>
<p>Glenn Sacks also provided the world with the statistics published by the US Department of Health and Human Services in their <em>Child Maltreatment</em> report  from 2001 to 2006 which show that:</p>
<blockquote><p><strong><em>70.8% of children who are killed by one parent are killed by their mothers and</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>70.6% of children abused by one parent are abused by their mothers.</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>60% of the victims are boys.</em></strong></p>
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<p>This clearly proves that the information contained in the top two posters on this post are much more accurate than the second two. But, even so, I think most fair thinking and responsible adults would consider that, to use any of the above posters, is putting children at risk and is thoroughly reprehensible. I do hope that Miss Flink has learned a lesson from her expensive $25,000 headache!</p>
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		<title>Attempt to demean men in the UK, but one man won&#8217;t have it</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Laurence Edgar lives in Sunderland, UK. I print in full below the letter he sent to his local council, which is self-explanatory:
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<blockquote><p>&#8220;While visiting your beautiful Roker Park I referred to the smart black and gold finger post direction signs in the centre of the park, and was shocked to see that when directing people to toilets the two genders were given a grossly different status. Women are venerated with the title &#8220;Ladies&#8221; while Men are debased to the status of an animal sexual function and degraded with the adjective &#8220;Male&#8221;.</p>
<p>Kindly discipline whoever is responsible for this immature provocation, and correct this public disclosure of institutionalised sexual discrimination by replacing the signs with equal ranking titles, such as:</p>
<p>Gentlemen’s and Ladies’ Toilets</p>
<p>Men’s<span> </span>and Women’s Toilets  or</p>
<p>Female and Male Toilets</p>
<p>I am sure you will be eager to remove this offence against good men. I therefore need not remind you of public sector’s duty to promote gender equality and social inclusion together with the offences being committed, not to mention the <em>Sunderland Echo’s </em>hunger for articles.</p>
<p>Yours Faithfully</p>
<p>Laurence Edgar</p>
<p>PS. There is enough trouble in the world without Local Government gratuitously creating new problems.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
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<p>A letter after my own heart &#8211; brief and very much to the point. I am happy to report that the council admitted their error and wrote to Laurence Edgar saying that the signs had been changed. Even one protester is able to achieve a victory for men. </p>
<p>Instances such as this show careless and shallow thought and a total disregard of the feelings of men. There are other issues connected with it also. I don&#8217;t know whether the person responsible realizes it but there would be nothing stopping a visitor to the park, walking his dog, to allow his dog to use the &#8220;male&#8221; toilets as there is no indication that they are to be used by humans only.</p>
<p>On the other hand, women who are not wives of a peer of the land, or a lady in her own right, should use the toilets, in which case they would get very little use. Even if we allow the use of the term &#8220;lady&#8221; to mean a refined and well-behaved woman, there are a lot of women in the UK who would not qualify to use the toilets, such as prostitutes, women who are binge-drinkers and can be found lying in the streets drunk in the evening, those sleeping rough in the towns and a host of others. These considerations do not seem to have occurred to the vague mind who gave the order for the offensive signs to be put up. Obviously they are not up to the job and are using council taxes needlessly in order to rectify a situation they have caused.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s all keep an eye open for such misandric treatment and <strong><em>do</em></strong> something about it.</p>
<p>A thought: I wonder how &#8220;gentlemen&#8221; and &#8220;female&#8221; signs would have been received in Roker Park?</p>
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<strong>Domestic Violence Experts:<br />
<span style="font-weight:normal;"><strong>Research Has Discredited the Woman-as-Victim/Man-as-Perpetrator DV Mode</strong><span><strong>l</strong></span></span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><strong><span style="font-weight:normal;"><span><strong><br />
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<p>“Men account for half of all DV victims and incur a third of DV-related injuries. Ignoring female-on-male violence inhibits our efforts to combat domestic violence.”</p>
<p><strong>John Hamel</strong>, LCSW, a court-certified batterer treatment provider and author of the book <em>Gender-Inclusive Treatment of Intimate Partner Abuse</em></p>
<p>  </p>
<p>“Half of violent relationships were reciprocally violent. In non-reciprocally violent relationships, women were the perpetrators in more than 70% of the cases.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Dr. Daniel J. Whitaker</strong> of the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, describing a 2007 study published in the <em>American Journal of Public Health</em></p>
<p> </p>
<p>&#8220;Every time we tried to say that women&#8217;s intimate partner abuse is different than men&#8217;s, the evidence did not support it.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Dr. Jennifer Langhinrichsen-Rohling </strong>of the University of South Alabama</p>
<p>  </p>
<p>&#8220;My independent research as to gender and domestic violence reveals that women use all forms of domestic violence at least as frequently as do men and with very similar effects on male victims.&#8221; </p>
<p>“A meta-analytic review of 552 domestic violence studies published in the <em>Psychological Bulletin</em> found that 38% of the physical injuries in heterosexual domestic assaults are suffered by men.”</p>
<p><strong>Dr. Donald Dutton</strong>, UBC author of <em>Rethinking Domestic Violence</em></p>
<p>  </p>
<p>&#8220;Both boys and girls who observe their mothers engaging in violence toward her partners tend to use more violence in their romantic relationships. Moreover, such girls are more likely to be aggressive with their peers.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Psychology Professor Marlene Moretti</strong> of Simon Fraser University BC</p>
<p>  </p>
<p>&#8220;I have conducted surveys of nationally representative samples of American families funded by the National Institutes of Health in 1975, 1985, and 1992. </p>
<p>&#8220;In 2006 I conducted a study of partner violence in 32 nations. In all of these studies, the rate of men victimized by physical and psychological attacks by their partners is about the same as the rate of women victimized by male partners&#8230;&#8221;Physical attacks by women account for about a third of the injuries.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Murray A. Straus</strong>, Professor of Sociology and Co-Director Family Research Laboratory University of New Hampshire:</p>
<p>  </p>
<p>&#8220;When men with children try to access domestic violence services and are turned away, we deny their children services and put them in danger. There is an unknown quantity of children&#8230;who cannot find the services they need to escape their violent mothers, and therefore, they must remain in their homes. <strong>Thus, by discriminating against male victims of domestic violence, we are also discriminating against their children</strong> and putting both the father and his children at risk. It is imperative, then, to assure that male victims and their children can get access to domestic violence services.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Denise A. Hines</strong>, Ph.D. of the Family Research Laboratory at the University of New Hampshire</p>
<p>  </p>
<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s mandated that I have the Duluth Domestic Violence Power &amp; Control Wheel prominently displayed in the office where I provide batterers&#8217; treatment classes. I do, but with one minor modification &#8212; I drew a circle around it and a line going through it.&#8221;</p>
<p>[In the Duluth theoretical framework, domestic violence is caused by a patriarchal society that sanctions violence by men against their female partners. Women are assumed to be either victims or, when they are found to aggress against their male partners, to be doing so in self-defense.]</p>
<p><strong>Claudia Ann Dias, MSC, JD</strong> Batterers&#8217; Treatment Provider</p>
<p>  </p>
<p>“A recent study [published in the journal <em>Violence and Victims</em>] analyzed data originally obtained through the <em>National Violence Against Women Survey</em> in the mid-90s…[which was] a study which was designed, conducted and analyzed by feminist researchers.</p>
<p>“Researchers looked at 10,000 respondents who were currently married, and found that adult women are just as controlling and jealous towards their male partners as the other way around. </p>
<p>“They also found that the relationship between use of control and jealousy and physical violence existed equally for both male and female respondents, and that ‘intimate terrorists’ can be either male or female.” </p>
<p><strong>John Hamel, LCSW</strong>, a court-certified batterer treatment provider and author of the book <em>Gender-Inclusive Treatment of Intimate Partner Abuse</em></p>
<p>  </p>
<p>&#8220;The domestic violence establishment&#8211;of which I was once very much a part&#8211;has distorted the research to minimize and ignore female and mutual domestic violence.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Dr. Donald Dutton</strong>, UBC Author of <em>Rethinking Domestic Violence</em></p>
<p>  </p>
<p><span>California</span> State Long Beach University professor Martin Fiebert maintains an online bibliography summarizing 219 scholarly investigations, with an aggregate sample size exceeding 220,000, which concludes &#8220;women are as physically aggressive, or more aggressive, than men in their relationships with their spouses or male partners.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;Research shows that domestic violence is actually more common in lesbian relationships than in heterosexual relationships.&#8221;</strong></p>
<p><strong>Dr. Donald Dutton</strong>, UBC Author of <em>Rethinking Domestic Violence</em></p>
<p>  </p>
<p>&#8220;According to the [female] victims themselves, the majority of these cases did indeed involve mutual abuse and, and some featured a dominant female perpetrator whose [male] partner was arrested after fighting back. This clinical data contradicted much of what I had been taught, and led me to conduct an extensive review of the research literature. What I found more than corroborated my clinical findings.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>John Hamel, LCSW</strong>, a court-certified batterer treatment provider and author of the book <em>Gender-Inclusive Treatment of Intimate Partner Abuse</em></p>
<p>  </p>
<p>&#8216;Domestic Violence Is a Serious Problem for both Women and Men&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8220;California domestic violence laws violate men&#8217;s rights because they provide state funding only for women and their children who use shelters and other programs, a state appeals court has ruled. </p>
<p>&#8220;The decision by the Third District Court of Appeal in Sacramento requires the programs to be available to male as well as female victims of domestic violence&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>New California Appeal Court Ruling</strong></p>
<p> </p>
<p>&#8220;Domestic violence &#8216;research&#8217; has been misleading, in that data has been extracted from crime reports and/or &#8216;crime victim surveys – in which men underreport more than women – and have been publicized as indicating domestic violence is a gender issue (male-perpetrator/female-victims). In fact, when larger surveys with representative samples are examined, perpetration of domestic violence perpetration is slightly more common for females&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Dr. Donald Dutton</strong>, UBC Author of <em>Rethinking Domestic Violence</em></p>
<p>  </p>
<p>&#8220;The real horror is the continued status of battered men as the &#8216;missing persons&#8217; of the problem. Male victims do not count and are not counted&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8220;Federal funds typically pass to a state coalition against or to a branch of a state agency designated to deal with violence against women. </p>
<p>&#8220;Thirty years ago battered women had no place to go and no place to turn for help and assistance. Today, there are places to go—more than 1,800 shelters, and many agencies to which to turn. For men, there still is no place to go and no one to whom to turn.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Richard James Gelles</strong>, PhD, Director for the Center for Research on Youth &amp; Social Policy</p>
<p>  </p>
<p>&#8220;Under current policy, abused men are both denied services and told, essentially, that they don’t even exist. Ignoring male victims is not only a human rights issue, but also a public health issue. Until all perpetrators of family violence are held accountable for their actions, regardless of gender, our efforts will be limited, with serious implications for future generations.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>John Hamel, LCSW</strong>, a court-certified batterer treatment provider and author of the book <em>Gender-Inclusive Treatment of Intimate Partner Abuse</em></p>
<p>  </p>
<p>&#8220;I interviewed women in battered women&#8217;s shelters and wondered why some were leaving in less than a week. The answer, it turned out, is that they too were engaging in violence against their partners, and in some cases had left to pick up the battle again. We weren&#8217;t helping these women because [by ignoring their role in DV] we were ignoring their paradigm</p>
<p><strong>Dr. Jennifer Langhinrichsen-Rohling</strong> of the University of South Alabama </p>
<p>  </p>
<p>&#8220;The majority of mainstream researchers are now acknowledging the gender-inclusive nature of intimate partner abuse.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>John Hamel, LCSW,</strong> a court-certified batterer treatment provider and author of the book <em>Gender-Inclusive Treatment of Intimate Partner Abuse</em><br />
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<p><strong>Erin Pizzey </strong>who opened the first women&#8217;s refuge in London in the 1970s, states in her book <em>&#8220;Prone to Violence&#8221; </em>that, of the first 100 women who entered the refuge, 62 were as violent or more violent than the men they were allegedly running away from.</p>
<p>For many years her book had been successfully censored in all UK libraries and bookshops but now it is available to download free. You can do so by visiting:  <span>http://www.mankindwales.org.uk</span><span>  and going to the literature section. Erin Pizzey is a patron of the UK ManKind charity.</span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hans Christian Andersen&#8217;s story, The Emperor&#8217;s New Clothes, is a vivid illustration of how people can easily be deluded. You will remember that two tailors told the emperor that they had manufactured a really marvellous cloth, very fine and more beautiful than any other. They told the emperor that it was so special that only [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=amos2008.wordpress.com&blog=3895068&post=91&subd=amos2008&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Hans Christian Andersen&#8217;s story, <em>The Emperor&#8217;s New Clothes, </em>is a vivid illustration of how people can easily be deluded. You will remember that two tailors told the emperor that they had manufactured a really marvellous cloth, very fine and more beautiful than any other. They told the emperor that it was so special that only very intelligent people could see it; ordinary people couldn&#8217;t. This great con trick was swallowed in wholesale fashion by the emperor and all his subjects. When the tailors ostensibly made him a magnificent outfit from the cloth the emperor paraded down the street in it admired by all his subjects who said they could see the cloth. It wasn&#8217;t until a small boy, who wasn&#8217;t taken in by the trick, cried out that the emperor had no clothes on, that everyone came to their senses and realised they had all been party to a big lie.<br />
Such was the case when feminism was introduced in the second half of the twentieth century. Women were told that for centuries they had been dominated by an evil patriarchy and that they were a downtrodden section of the community that needed to fight for freedom and equality. Some people say that women never invent anything; I disagree; feminists have been inventing, or rewriting, their own version of history &#8211; which some of the sillier sisters referred to as &#8220;herstory&#8221; &#8211; for half a century. In doing so their total ignorance of true history stands out like a sore thumb.</p>
<p>Back in the Middle Ages women were much better cared for than the feminists would have us believe. Joseph and Frances Gies&#8217; book <em>Marriage and the Family in the Middle Ages </em>records that &#8220;Widows were given half or full provisions of their husband&#8217;s estate after his death. (The children were sometimes given the other half.) This includes monies, land and houses. Children were also explicitly cared for in their fathers&#8217; wills, with guardianship entrusted to the widow.&#8221; In cases of adultery men were charged equally with women.</p>
<p>Paintings from that time show us wives chasing their husbands with broomsticks. Modern surveys clearly show that women are just as violent in the home as men; perhaps they always have been. </p>
<p>It was always assumed that only men were promiscuous and fathers always assumed that the children borne by their wives were always their offspring. With the advent of modern DNA tests it has now been proved beyond all question that one in five children in all developed nations are not the children of the man claimed to be the father by the woman. Mothers today are having to repay many thousands of pounds to men who have discovered that they are not the fathers of the children as claimed by the mother.</p>
<p>The alleged &#8220;oppression&#8221; of women by men in not allowing them to enter certain jobs and professions such as the medical and legal professions were attempts to shield women from danger within society. Women were forbidden to work down coal mines on the ground that it was &#8220;too dangerous&#8221;. However, it wasn&#8217;t too dangerous for men and thousands were killed doing the job.</p>
<p>So successful were feminists with their &#8220;emperor&#8217;s new clothes&#8221; trick that we have now reached the stage of &#8220;let&#8217;s pretend&#8221; by allowing women into the military on an alleged equal footing with men; equal except that the standards expected of men and not the same as the watered down standards expected of women. Also women do not share the same dangers as men. If they did they would share the same percentage of casualties. Of course, women <em><strong>can</strong></em> be casualties but they are few and far between as the following graph clearly shows:</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><a href="http://amos2008.files.wordpress.com/2008/11/military-casualties.png"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-92" title="military-casualties" src="http://amos2008.files.wordpress.com/2008/11/military-casualties.png?w=500&#038;h=348" alt="military-casualties" width="500" height="348" /></a>Men represent 90% of the armed forces but 98% of the casualties.<br />
Women represent 10% of the armed forces but only 2% of the casualties. </p>
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<p>Something else that feminists have invented are false statistics and, by infiltrating the media over the last four decades, they have managed to get those false figures accepted by a gullible public. Many people today are convinced that domestic abuse is something perpetrated by men on women whereas the truth is that women are equally as violent in the home as men.</p>
<p>Child abuse is another case in point. Aided and abetted by the BBC and the National Society for the Prevention of cruelty to Children (NSPCC) the impression has been given in the UK that men are responsible for most child abuse. This is hypocrisy of a very high order as the figures <strong><em>published by the NSPCC</em></strong> show that the vast majority of child abuse is perpetrated by mothers. Figures from Scotland show that over half child abuse there is perpetrated by mothers as the following graph shows. </p>
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<p>As you can clearly see, the only area where child abuse has increased from 2002 to 2003 is that by mothers. All the others have decreased or remain the same. As recent figures in the UK show that violence by women has doubled in the last five years, one can only suppose that child abuse by women has increased also. This is probably the reason why I couldn&#8217;t find an up-to-date table of child abuse on the Scottish Government website. It&#8217;s been well and truly hidden. The statistics on domestic violence on the website are truly antique. I think they are about as old as Edinburgh castle!</p>
<p>But the game is up! Feminism is now known as one gigantic lie. The <strong><em>empress</em></strong> is found to be wearing no clothes!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[The girl who accused Mike Tyson of rape received a telephone call from him at two o&#8217; clock in the morning, got out of bed and went to his bedroom where she took off her clothes and got into bed with him. Did she think he wanted to play tiddlywinks? Of course Tyson was a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=amos2008.wordpress.com&blog=3895068&post=80&subd=amos2008&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>The girl who accused Mike Tyson of rape received a telephone call from him at two o&#8217; clock in the morning, got out of bed and went to his bedroom where she took off her clothes and got into bed with him. Did she think he wanted to play tiddlywinks? Of course Tyson was a rough character and also the &#8220;wrong&#8221; colour, so he was found guilty. It was one of the many outrageous miscarriages of justice in the American system.</p>
<p>America is designed around women and run by feminists of both sexes so that Tyson never stood a chance once the cry of &#8220;rape&#8221; went up. Given that feminists scorn all men, even those who have given their lives to preserve free speech but for <em>&#8220;feminists only&#8221;</em>.</p>
<p>Over the last forty years the people of America have had political &#8220;correctness&#8221; blasted at them from TV presenters anxious to keep their jobs, politicians trying to gain votes and advertisers trying to sell to women with the result that it is now the &#8220;received wisdom&#8221; in society in general and in the police force in particular, that &#8220;a woman would never lie about something like rape&#8221;. The truth is that women do &#8211; <strong><em>frequently</em></strong><em>.</em></p>
<p>Surveys have proved beyond doubt what the reasons are for false allegations of rape. These are the most common ones given by women who have made false rape allegations:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>1.They agreed to have sex but thought they might be pregnant</em></p>
<p><em>2.They didn&#8217;t want their husband or boyfriend to know they had been unfaithful</em></p>
<p><em>3.They had second thoughts afterwards and wanted to blame the man</em></p>
<p><em>4.They wanted to get revenge on a man</em></p>
<p><em>5.They felt ashamed and didn&#8217;t want the blame</em></p>
<p><em>6.To test a partner&#8217;s love.</em></p></blockquote>
<p> <em>The Times</em> in the UK reported the case of Julie Renouf who wasted 2,000 hours of police time and was responsible for a man being unjustly questioned for 15 hours by police. Her lame excuse was that she didn&#8217;t want her husband to know that she had betrayed him. She was jailed for a mere six months! </p>
<p>In the USA a former stripper made a false accusation against some Dallas cowboys and was charged by police with filing a false report. She received a derisory 90 days in jail and was fined $1500.</p>
<p>There are many other reasons why women cry rape falsely. All women like to be thought of as &#8220;desirable to men&#8221; and &#8220;lusted after&#8221; etc. even though many don&#8217;t qualify in any way in this direction, so if she can tell her friends that &#8220;he took me against my will&#8221; she can imply that she&#8217;s hot property.</p>
<p>Even the late Andrea Dworkin tried doing this. She claimed that a young waiter working in a hotel had tried to rape her. Can you imagine that? Andrea Dworkin being raped! I recently read a hilarious article on this on the Suffragents website. If you want to read it put this URL in your address bar &#8211; but hold your sides! – <span><strong><em>http://suffragents.freehostia.com/articles%20file/feminism.html#dworkin</em></strong></span></p>
<p>Then there is the messy divorce where the wife wants the children but the husband also wants to see them. A rape charge will influence the judge to hand over the children to the wife, despite the husband being totally innocent. Wil Hetherington was caught by his wife in this way which resulted in his being incarcerated for 30 years. His wife visited him voluntarily, agreed to having sex and then cried rape.</p>
<p>The answer to this social evil of lying women is to punish them &#8211; really punish them &#8211; by giving them the same jail sentence the man would have received if he had been found guilty. We are talking 10 to 20 years!  In the case of Mrs Hetherington, 30 years.</p>
<p>The tragic aspect of this problem from the point of view of normal women is that it detracts from the case of a woman who has been genuinely raped; but one thing&#8217;s for sure, any woman who goes to a man&#8217;s bedroom, takes off her clothes and engages in sexual activity, only to cry &#8220;No!&#8221; at the last moment, cannot expect to be treated seriously by the police, and it is certainly not a matter for the courts.</p>
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